Vpliv stila navezanosti na razumevanje osebne svobode
V diplomski nalogi obravnavam povezavo med razumevanjem osebne svobode in
oblikovanimi stili navezanosti v primarni družini ter kasneje v partnerskem odnosu. Posebej
sem se posvetila partnerskemu odnosu in izbiri partnerja. Izhajala sem iz dejstva, da stil
navezanosti, ki ga oseba oblikuje v otroštvu vpliva tudi na razumevanje svobode. Pri svojih
intervjuvancih sem skušala najprej ugotoviti, kako so v primarni družini razumeli pojem
osebne svobode, nato sem to povezala s stilom navezanosti, ki ga je sogovornik oblikoval.
Zanimalo me je, kakšno sporočilo o svobodi izhaja iz različnih stilov navezanosti. V
nadaljevanju sem raziskovala, ali so sogovorniki stil navezanosti prenesli tudi v svoj
partnerski odnos, oziroma ali so si izbrali partnerja, ki jim je omogočil nadaljevanje prvotnega
stila navezanosti.
Moja kvalitativna raziskava črpa izhodišča iz teorije navezanosti Johna Bowlbyja in Mary
Ainsworth. V vprašanjih za polstrukturiran intervju pa sem skušala zajeti temeljne potrebe, ki
naj bi jih posameznik zadovoljil v družini, kot jih navaja Gabi Čačinovič-Vogrinčič. Opravila
sem štiri poglobljene polstrukturirane intervjuje, s tremi ženskami in enim moškim. Hipoteze
sem preverjala s pomočjo opisov stilov navezanosti Johna Bowlbyja in Mary Ainsworth ter
Intervjuja navezanosti v odraslosti. Zavedam se, da je pojem svobode zelo kompleksen,
vendar sem v kontekstu diplomske naloge iskala predvsem morebitne dejavnike psihičnega ali
celo fizičnega nasilja v odnosih. Prav tako sem preverjala prisotnost fleksibilnih ali
nefleksibilnih prepričanj, prisotnost sprejemanja in spoštovanja.
Rezultati so pokazali, da se stili navezanosti iz otroštva v večini primerov prenesejo tudi v
partnerski odnos, kar pomeni, da so si intervjuvanci izbrali partnerja, ki jim je tak stil
omogočil. Odgovori so še pokazali, da so sogovorniki v partnerskem odnosu navadno
zadovoljili enake potrebe kot v primarni družini. Ker sem pri vsakem odgovoru skušala
oceniti tudi prisotnost »svobode«, sem pričakovano prišla do ugotovitve, da je bil v varno
navezanih družinah, pojem osebne svobode neprimerno bolj prisoten kot pri ostalih. Te
družine so izkazovale več strpnosti, spoštovanja, člani družine so si bolj zaupali in večkrat so
med seboj podelili čustva.
Theme of my thesis is the connection between the understanding of personal freedom and
developed attachment stylein the primary family and in next close relationships. Special
attention was dedicated close relationship and choosing of the partner. Starting point of
discussion was the fact that the attachment style developed by individual in childhood also
influences understanding of the freedom. Therefore was my primary concern to establish how
the interviewed persons understood personal freedom in the primary family and to what
degree was this understanding present at all. Those findings were then connected with style of
attachment developed by the person. I was interested in the message of freedom, expressed by
different attachment style.
My qualitative research is based in theory of attachment by John Bowlby and Mary
Ainsworth. In questionnaire for semistructured interview I’ve tried to include those basic
needs of individual, that could be satisfied in family, as they are quoted by Gabi Čačinovič -
Vogrinčič. I have done four deep semistructured interviews with 3 women and 1 man.
Hypotesis was verified with definitions of attachment styles by John Bowlby and Mary
Ainsworth and with Interview of attachments in adulthood. I am aware, that the freedom had
very complex meaning, so I was in the context of my thesis predominantly searching for
possible factors of psychological of physical violence in relationships. Presence of flexible or
inflexible beliefs, presence of acceptance and respect was also checked.
Results show that childhood attachment styles are mostly transfered into a close relationship,
which means, that interviewed persons have chosen partner, who made this possible. Answers
also showed, that interviewed persons usually fulfilled same needs in close relationship as in
the primary family. Based on their answers I determined what kind of attachment is involved
and their corresponding adult versions. Since I’ve tried to evaluate in each answer presence of
“the freedom”, i came expectantly to conclusion, that the notion of freedom in the securely
attached families was far more present then in the rest. The basic need were fulfilled as well.
Those families expressed more tolerance and respect. Members of those families showed
higher level of trust and more often shared their emotions.
družina
partnerstvo
osebna svoboda
stili navezanosti
ljubezen
diplomske naloge
true
true
[K. Kraljevič]
Ljubljana
Slovenski jezik
Angleški jezik
Diplomsko delo
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2016
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